jenkins: adjust OpenSSL exclusions

[richardlau]

Run sharedlibs_openssl35 on Node.js 22 (test fixes were backported some time ago).
Add sharedlibs_openssl40, excluded for now on Node.js 22 (doesn't compile).

Refs: #4364
Refs: nodejs/TSC#1869

[richardlau]

Add sharedlibs_openssl40, excluded for now on Node.js 22 (doesn't compile).

https://ci.nodejs.org/job/richardlau-node-test-commit-linux-containered/nodes=ubuntu2404_sharedlibs_openssl40_x64/2/console

19:27:49 In file included from ../deps/ncrypto/ncrypto.h:4:
19:27:49 /opt/openssl-4.0.1/include/openssl/bn.h:379:5: note: declared here
19:27:49   379 | int BN_is_prime_ex(const BIGNUM *p, int nchecks, BN_CTX *ctx, BN_GENCB *cb);
19:27:49       |     ^~~~~~~~~~~~~~
19:27:49 ../deps/ncrypto/ncrypto.cc: In function 'bool ncrypto::{anonymous}::PrintGeneralName(const ncrypto::BIOPointer&, const GENERAL_NAME*)':
19:27:49 ../deps/ncrypto/ncrypto.cc:646:57: error: invalid use of incomplete type 'ASN1_IA5STRING' {aka 'struct asn1_string_st'}
19:27:49   646 |     PrintAltName(out, reinterpret_cast<const char*>(name->data), name->length);
19:27:49       |                                                         ^~
19:27:49 In file included from /opt/openssl-4.0.1/include/openssl/crypto.h:38,
19:27:49                  from /opt/openssl-4.0.1/include/openssl/bio.h:32,
19:27:49                  from ../deps/ncrypto/ncrypto.h:3:
19:27:49 /opt/openssl-4.0.1/include/openssl/types.h:57:16: note: forward declaration of 'ASN1_IA5STRING' {aka 'struct asn1_string_st'}
19:27:49    57 | typedef struct asn1_string_st ASN1_INTEGER;
19:27:49       |                ^~~~~~~~~~~~~~
19:27:49 ../deps/ncrypto/ncrypto.cc:646:70: error: invalid use of incomplete type 'ASN1_IA5STRING' {aka 'struct asn1_string_st'}
19:27:49   646 |     PrintAltName(out, reinterpret_cast<const char*>(name->data), name->length);
19:27:49       |                                                  
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Further to that, nodejs/node#62410 doesn't apply cleanly on v22.x-staging and looks non-trivial to fix up (it might need some of the missing ncrypto updates and I'm not sure if all of those are safe to apply).